Sunday, January 1, 2012

Mon amies

This is what I updated my Facebook status as, 
"Musuh biar seorang dh cukup. Kwan biar beribu so when some walk away, you have the others. Life is life. Tapayah tipu, mmg friends come and go pun :)"


Picture not related to subject by any means. For my pleasure only.

True. memang friends come and go. Tapayah cakap lah jenis yang kawan bila kita senang SAHAJA and then bila kita menangis jatuh tersungkur sakit macam nak mati dia blah je, Tht's just simply life. But hey, kita tak boleh nk definisikan life tu apa, because life or kehidupan hanya dapat ditafsirkan by the way we look at things and events that took place in our life. Allah dah tetapkan dah berapa lama kita ada atas muka bumi ni, and its really up to us how to live em. Haaaih, memang lah kita tak boleh nk hidup tanpa teman, tanpa rakan. Tapi kalau rakan pun dah macam entah apa apa, buat tak endah dgn difficulties kita, then what's the point of sticking with them. Nak tunggu kita senang baru nak jengah kita ke? Goodbye je lah weh. You know what, I came to realize that true friends nih biasanya memang dah ada kat situ dah. Tapi kita je yang tak perasan. Maybe dia bukanlah yang kita expect to have fun with. Tapi dia jugk yang kita cari when we're facing giant problems. Dia lah yang tau rahsia kita yang paling gelap. And these people biasanya secara tak sengaja dijadikan bahan korban sebab kita tak sedar pun their friendship sampai lah satu masa bila kita bru sibuk sibuk nak appreciate dia. Padahal they've always been there for us, all along, all this time. Kita je yang tak perasan. Why don't you try? Aku seru korang semua pikir sejenak siapa yang agak agak korang tak pernah nak igt,tapi bila korang kena marah ngan parents ke, korang rasa tak tenang, korang duka lara gundah gelana, kena reject ngn boyfie lala korang cari dia. Korang cari dia. Siapa DIA? Dia lah teman sejati. Maybe, i cant guarantee. It depends on yr situation too. Kalau nk letak kan suasana hidup aku, I think I can use this concept. And, these people won't hurt you. They'll try their ass off to keep you happy. And, bila korang sedih, dia pun sedih. Bila korang happy, dia pun happy even dia actually tgh sedih. Itu baru sayang. Itu baru caring. Itu baru kawan. Like what I say in CLICK , jangan amalkan cakap ILOVEYOU selalu. Don't say em when you don't mean em. Cause when you really mean 'em, it seems meaningless. The same goes to IMISSYOU. tabaik au cakap kalau tak maksudkan, tuh dah kategori menipu. And nobody wants to be called a liar ! Next, if you guys have some sort of conflicts with your friends, think positive. Maybe dia pun ada masalah sendiri and etc .. kot. Ala, I think all of you are wise enough to think clearly and straightly. Just don't be with those who can't make you happy and whom you can't bring happiness into their life. Kalau dah cuba dah lah, then move on je. Sebab kawan biar beribu. Jangan hilang beribu kawan hanya disebabkan seorang insan. *tapi kawan sampai beribu tuh macam mustahil kan, sebab nk cari sorang kawan pun dah susah. Kalau kenalan sampai beribu tuh masuk akal lah jugak*  Okay okay okay? Tomorrow never diies! Smile and move on~ 

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